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09/07/2019

This guy said he loved me! What do I do?!?

QUESTION
This guy said he loved me! What do I do?!?
I’m really sorry that this is so long!

Well there’s this guy, lets call him Bob. I’ve known him for several months. We had two classes together last semester and we sat next to each other so we became good friends. Then this semester we have two classes, together again. And we sat next to each other again for about a month, them the teacher moved our seats. We would have arguments all the time over the dumbest things ( like one time we fought over whether it was the or thee ). I guess you could say we flirt a lot, like he pokes me or touches my arms or legs. We tease each other a lot too. Like he pretended to close my locker one time when I wasn’t done with it, but he really didn’t. One day I said how all guys are the same, ( which I know isn’t true but I was mad at this guy I know that day so ), he started to tell me how sweet he was to his last girlfriend, and how when things weren’t working out with them, he drove to her house to explain to her. Then when ever I talk to any of my other friends ( some boys, some girls ) he always seem to interrupt and start talking to just me. Is he jealous, or what’s going on??

So today, we had a tornado drill so we had to go sit in the band room. It was me and him, his best friend and my best friend. He was sitting across from me. And then his best friend ( who we’ll call tim ) and my best friend ( lets call her Lisa ) were across from each other. We all started talking then Bob ( my crush ) started to tease me saying that he knew I liked him. I said, “bullshit”. ( which I know I should’ve just told him but with everyone around us it just felt weird ). But then Lisa ( my best friend ) said, “yeah I know,” as in that I do like him. So that continued for a minute then the drill was over. Then he started teasing me on how short I was. We went back to our classroom where our teacher yelled at us for talking. Then later we headed down the computer lab to work on our essays. Bob and time were both being loud, so I told them to shut up. While I was walking away, bob ( the one I like ) said, “I love you!” To me. I think he was kidding, but I don’t know. Because his friend laughed but he stayed quiet after that.. Was he just kidding or does it seem like he might have feelings for me?

ANSWER
Well..
It look like a little bit confusing..!!

Well..i cant say anything for sure..

But wat i feel is he likes you..and he meant wat he said…!!!

I dont care if his friend was laughing wen he said it….!!
I might know wat jus happened..
I guess..Tim and Bob tried to play a prank on you ..which i think BOB planed..
Although it was some kind of a prank .. i guess ..Bob really meant wat he said..!! And i think he planned that thing on purpose so that you say it in return..!!

Well.. here’s wat i’ll advice you to do..
Jus try to take him some place alone..jus the two of you..
And jus say I love you to him..!! And wait for his reaction…

If he laughs then that means he was joking wid you…and wen that happens , wat you should do is..tell him that you were jokin and wanted to get in his nerves …tell him that you did it because of his prank which he played on you..!!

But on the other hand ..if he doesn’t laugh…and says i love you to you..then he really loves you…and i guess that will end up with a kiss..!! If you really love him…then even if he doesn’t say ILU in return(but he’s amazed though and is smiling)..i think you should hug him and kiss him..coz trust me.. guys love that..!!

Well..best of luck…!! and btw ..you dont really hav to follow wat i just said..everyone has their own way of expressing themselves..so you can think of something yourself…and remember..always trust your instincts and follow wat ur heart says…thats the most important thing…!!!

Hope this helped..!! 🙂