What is a threshold mentality of modern teenagers. The desire to be successful, to take responsibility, to act responsibly, to create a family as a mother, to take care of the kids. In this regard, the need for education is equal for all age groups regardless of the previous education.
However, the modern family faces many problems, which are indirectly affected by the change in the value system. The modern family faces financial difficulties more than it was before. The aspiration to own success, to follow your status, interests, and position in the family, to take responsibility, perhaps even to a certain degree of maturity, all these things are normal for a young family. But when a person succeeds in achieving his or her goals, the world shifts to them, and the children, having become parents, take on the role of the older generation. At some age, the children become too independent and too greedy for the current living. And having gained independence, they have a more pronounced attitude toward adults than to society as a whole. That is why parents should respond to the call “do my English homework” only when the tasks are too complicated for a young family.
The solution of many issues of family importance for the child is centered on the formation of a sense of duty and the desire to balance the interests of the family and the child. The above definition of the relationship between the child and the parents refers only to the case when the latter performs the functions of the upbringing system on the basis of the natural need for the child’s attention and support. Such cases are called cases of parental commitment and part of the reason for early marriage is the belief that the parents will always love the child, and the child will respond to their calls “I love you” only if he or she does not have pride and respect for parents.
Relations between the child and the parents are built on the basis of mutual trust and love. The child trusts the adults and teachers, and this is one of the main values in the family.
The belief that the parents will always love the child and that the child will always be loyal to the best interests of the family, because the child does not yet have self-esteem and knows that his parents are just names on an honor roll. That is why the image of the parent in the role of which the child assumes the role of an adult is completely different from the ideal image that has traditionally been preserved in the consciousness of the child.
Based on the example of a poor man, we can assume that the parental role is more dominant in the development of the child’s consciousness than the role of the parents. At the same time, the image of the mother is much more subtle than the image of the father. When a child is inclined to expect a mother, he perceives it as an adult, and this is his attitude towards the mother.
There are many stereotypes of early marriage. The value of matrimony is high. Real or symbolic investments (the inheritance of a wife) are more difficult to find than material, spiritual, religious, traditional values. Particularly, in the system of psychological relationships, love for children is led by a great sense of duty, respect for the body.
In the culture of modern families, there is a myth of the ‘usefulness’ of young spouses. They are often portrayed as lazy, irresponsible women. The children of modern families are often regarded as less talented, less courageous, and more selfishly inclined than good-looking girls.
Such attitude towards teenagers is formed by the interesting statistics of their development. Adolescents are considered to have a more difficult life position than girls and boys. They are more likely to experience stress and are more prone to physical problems. It is proved that the younger the child, the more stressful his or her life is.
The results of a comprehensive study in the US on adolescent suicide shows that the pain of adolescent mortality is much stronger than the pain of childhood mortality. Kids who become parents are more likely to have a difficult childhood. This is confirmed by the statistics of adolescents who committed self-murder more often.
Adolescents who become bullies are often more likely to have a psychological reaction than those who become victims of bullying. Especially that is, adolescents who become bullies by the age of 8 are more likely to have a psychological reaction to the trauma of childhood. This is unexpected, because it has been shown that the antecedents of bullies are more likely to have a psychological reaction to the trauma of childhood.
The reaction of children to the trauma of childhood is contradictory. They are more inclined to avoid it than others. This is a trait of the adolescent’s tendency to always remain in the center of attention, even in the most unfavorable conditions.
In all types of serial killers, the causes of death are traces from the previous stage of the development. This includes the time of elimination of the existing situation in the family.